porn spoiling society

Porns leading to Love, Sex and Dhoka…

ADITI GYANESH

Love, Sex, and Dhoka!  Defines the mentality of the people what they think about a relationship today. Sex is everywhere but just for fun. You can’t even think of a relationship between a girl and a boy without sex. Sex is all that concludes the relationship and ends it.

A girl meets a boy. They fall in love, make promises beyond their reach. Get into bed within six months, have sex for 4-5 times and story ends. And again they fall in love with someone else within a month. The word like love very often exists in society today. Insecurity and lack of confidence within the peoples mind to handle a relationship for lifetime and take its responsibilities has led the society to the path of darkness. Sex is only the language they understand. Sex with more than one has become the trend of society and on being asked about that the just make emotional traumatic condition to get rid of relationship.

Now the question arises that whether capability of a living being to perform sex is a boon or curse? Sex has always been an act of expressing love to your partner. But this is now the old definition that does not exist anymore. Sex nowadays is as common as grocery shopping. Getting into young generation talks will let you know how differently they think of it today. “Are you crazy?  Who like the long term relationship? Don’t you get bored of thinking of same person?” says Ritu Walia,student.

Generation next is furiously curious about tasting the fruit called SEX before their age of maturity. Thanks to pornographic and other social networking sites; for creating this immoral change in society. Long before in 80s and 90s when a boy proposed a girl it was a kind of breaking news to nearby society but now every second day this happens. Addiction to pornography is becoming a major issue today; it has not only influenced the young generation but also the married couple. It has become more accessible over the last decade. Pornography addiction, as any addiction, takes a major chunk out of a person's self-esteem.

It’s playing major role in breaking up the society. Morality is being killed day by day. People take sex as a very casual act or you can say just for fun. Western influence on the society has hypnotised people’s mind to such an extent that they have lost their self-esteem and morals. This is creating rifts in relationships to an unexpected extent no matter what kind of relationship. People don’t accept these things publically but they are involved in it. Logging in to pornographic sites one can easily find demolishing morals in a relationship.

Addiction to pornographic sites not only leads to self-exploitation but also leads on the path of crimes like rape and murder. Addiction to pornographic sites also affects mentally. Continuous incitement and unavailability of the partner makes a person mentally sick and then they move on the path of crimes like rape, eve teasing etc.

I have heard about many cases where men expect their wives to look like actresses and or to be the sexiest ones among their group. And if the expectations are unfulfilled, married life suffers. I scared if I won’t be able to that. Porn movies as well as other movies affect the life of the married ones a lot now, as they want their partners to see and perform like the stars. In some of the cases when any of the partners is uncomfortable, then very easily people swift to another person for pleasure.

A very natural and beautiful way of expressing love to your soul mate or partner has turned down into the “game of pleasure and satisfaction”. This issue of concern and people need to be counselled about the way they should choose their partners and maintain a distance from the porn site slowly so that they may not get frustrated at the time of unavailability of the partner.